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Moving to New York City<\/a>, I was pretty sure that my life would be exactly like the TV shows in which young twenty-somethings move into amazing apartments and make lifelong friends. I know these sitcoms are shot on a soundstage, scripted, and totally unrealistic, but unrealistic is everything when you move to a city where you\u2019re lucky to find lunch for under $10. Even your chance to meet the neighbors is more glamorous on television.<\/p>\n

Across from my four-bedroom apartment of all girls is another unit for four boys. Of course, we were destined to live the life of Friends<\/i>, Monica and Rachel on one side, and Chandler and Joey across the hall. We\u2019d share refrigerator goods, hang out at the coffee shop downstairs, and have oh so many laughable times together. Not.<\/p>\n

Reality of Living with Neighbors in a City<\/h2>\n

In fact, for the first five months of living in my apartment, I didn\u2019t know any of my neighbors<\/a>\u2019 names, and I was unlikely to get a \u201cHi!\u201d from someone while we were walking up or down the stairs together.\u00a0 So that was unfortunate.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve always been a social person: the door was always open to my college dorm and growing up my house was home to endless sleepovers, so living in a building full of strangers felt uncomfortable.<\/p>\n

One day, I ended up baking far too many cookies and having nothing to do with them, so I printed out a sign and taped it to my door:\u00a0 Homemade, Warm Cookies. Please Knock!\u00a0 This is exactly what your parents warn you about: free food from strangers. But although New Yorkers can be hostile, I\u2019ve found myself unnecessarily trusting of many a neighbor<\/a>.\u00a0 And my plan worked! I propped open my door, and as neighbors came in from the evening, they introduced themselves and enjoyed a free baked good.<\/p>\n

Tips for Getting to Know Your Neighbors<\/span><\/h2>\n

Now that I’ve found successful ways to meet my neighbors in my building, I’ve come up with a list of methods for getting to know your neighbors.<\/p>\n

Start (or join) a Facebook Group<\/span><\/h2>\n

This is crucial. When you move to a new building, find out if a group already exists. This is a great way to invite each other to building events (ie house parties), see if anyone wants to check out a local restaurant, or just complain about the building management. These groups can become essential if your building organizes against the landlord in the future, as it provides an easy way to connect with others.<\/p>\n

We originally posted this article when Facebook was at peak popularity. However, many users still log into Facebook solely to check their group activity.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

Introduce Yourself<\/h3>\n

When you see someone coming in and out of the building, ask him\/her a question and perhaps give him\/her a compliment, introducing yourself as Name, Apartment Number.\u00a0 When you see them again, make sure to address them by name and you\u2019re on to making a new friend!<\/p>\n

Throw a Party<\/h3>\n

Whether its for your friends\u00a0 or just for the neighbors, slip invites under neighbors\u2019 doors to let them know there\u2019s something fun going on in the building. It\u2019s an easy way to bond and little to no effort has to go into buying a bag of chips and some beer. And even if neighbors can\u2019t make it that night, they\u2019ll appreciate the nice gesture and perhaps send a reciprocal invite.<\/p>\n

Borrow Something<\/h3>\n

Do you need (or want to pretend to need) a cup of milk, a screwdriver, or help lifting something?\u00a0 It may seem strange in a city where you can get anything 24\/7, but asking your neighbor to borrow something (and of course bringing it back with a beer or a cupcake) will make a quick introduction and can stem to further conversation.<\/p>\n

Door Signs<\/h3>\n

They\u2019re cheesy, but they work. We decorate our door for holidays, offer free goodies when we have them, and have definitely had the favors returned.<\/p>\n

Meeting Neighbors Outside the Building<\/h2>\n

For out of the building acquaintances, make sure to frequent some local businesses on or near you\u2019re block.\u00a0 You\u2019ll start recognizing familiar faces and can easily introduce yourself in a non-creepy way.\u00a0 Also, it\u2019s easy to befriend the staff behind the counter when you\u2019re a repeat customer, and that\u2019s never a bad thing! Besides some free food, I\u2019ve received plenty of advice from the cashier at a local Chinese restaurant.<\/p>\n

Even if you\u2019re not naturally outgoing, remember that everyone else wants to make friends too!\u00a0 And if they don\u2019t, they\u2019re just not worth your time.<\/p>\n

Editor’s Note: We updated this article to enhance readability.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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